BDSM vrs Rape Fantasy

[Alebeard]

For many of us rape fantasy is a roleplay used within a wider BDSM context of whips, padles, canes, bondage, master slave relationships and parties with good snack foods.
For some however, rape fantasy play is the core and center of thier dynamic and no other BDSM really comes into the picture. BDSM remains a scary and odd kink involving poeple in little leather hats who dress up in moronic clothes and beat each other for no good  reason. On the other side, those involved in D/s dynamics often find rape and torture fantasy to be scary and too extreme.
For me the blending of the two makes a gerat kink and a wonderful love life, but for others they are seperate kinks that can notbe put together. I have always found it amazing that each group considers the other to be the more extreme

[John_F_Drake]

If there is one thing I don't bother to be surprised about anymore, it's peoples ideas about what is more extreme than what else.  The more you look at it, the less sense it makes.
I'll post something original of my own later, but for now its too later and I can't think clearly enough.

[Quixote]

I always find it strange the way some people like some things and not others, within this spectrum.

I love roleplaying (from mild to exxxtreme), S&M, rape scening, master/slave and anything else I can think of.  Even outside power exchange, just in general kink, I'll go for pretty much anything that either of us feel like.  It's all good.

Never trust people who only take a couple of things from a salad bar.

[John_F_Drake]

Never trust people who only take a couple of things from a salad bar.

You're just full of amazing one liners, aren't you?

[Darkling]

I don't currently have the good fortune of actually playing, so I live that aspect of my life vicariously through the good work of great Americans such as Alebeard.

But I find frustrating the search for a website with the balance of bondage, discipline/torture, humiliation, and availability for forced sex that suits my interests.

Sexandsubmission has great women, fantastic bondage, and nice exposure of the models, but is lighter on the discipline than I care for and has no NC dynamic at all -- in fact the girls have orgasms, which can be great in real life play but I dislike in a fantasy context. Spanking porn sites usually avoid bondage or sex though they feature nasty canings. RGE/Lupus films have whippings that are cruel and sufficient to make girls tremble and cry (actually, just about the level of punishment I desire) but only rarely is a girl posed so as to really display her cunt and asshole to my lustful gaze. Spankingserver and its sister site Pain4fem are doing a much better job of posing the girls and binding them then they have in the past, the girls sometimes struggle and even cry, and I like the level of punishment, though the scenarios don't have penetration. Whippedass I like for the perverted pleasure of seeing a bound girl humiliated by having to lick a dominant chick's anus.

And, though I regrettably risk offending our gracious host, Paintoy just does not tie girls up enough for my taste.

His BDSM humor, however, is impeccable.

[John_F_Drake]

And, though I regrettably risk offending our gracious host, Paintoy just does not tie girls up enough for my taste.

His BDSM humor, however, is impeccable.

I gotta agree with that last part, 100%.  The models are fantastic, the shoots are fantastic, the action is fantastic.
All I'm missing is bondage.
Oh.  And yeah.  Virtually all bondage sites suck ass :(

[Quixote]

I haven't seen much of Paintoy, but what I have has rocked.

I pretty much love Sexandsubmission and Whippedass, but not as much as kink.com's newest offering, thetrainingofo.com

Which so far I have only seen little sample clips and stills from ...

Which may explain my nervous tick.

[John_F_Drake]

I oughta check it out.  Thanks for the scouting.

[Sprayman]

I'll look too, and report back!

[Quixote]

Yes.  You two scout ahead.

I'll stay here with the wagons.

[Sprayman]

OK - but the Indians know where the wagons are, so stay alert.
Oh dear, am I really telling Quixote to stay alert. We are so screwed!

[Quixote]

*passes joint to one of the Indians*

Huh?

[Sprayman]

*passes joint to one of the Indians*

Huh?

So TOTALLY screwed!

If you think the Indian is going to be impressed with with the joint, just wait until you get a hit of the shit in that pipe he's lighting!  :P

[Quixote]

Don't sweat it.  We are communicating on a primal level that people who aren't high can never understand.

*opens packet of raw cookie dough*

[John_F_Drake]

Back on topic, please.