POST, DAMNIT!

[John_F_Drake]

Ooooook, no one's posting in this section yet, and I'm sure that EVERYONE has at least one story to share.

Therefore, I will start.

[John_F_Drake]

I have numerious stories, many of which I've already mentioned, but the most obvious is "how to force a women and punish her when you're afraid you might actually hurt her?"

I've mentioned before Arael's condition makes certain kinds of play unacceptably risky, as she would be unable to tell if she were injured.

I now leave this to you.

[John_F_Drake]

I think the best way to run this post, (although maybe not the entire section, we'll be about that) is to offer suggestions based on the situation given.

In this case, ideas for how to live out various elements without an undue amount of risk - no more or little more than a would be normal for the type of play.

[Sprayman]

OK John, real life coming up.
A question for you then.
Are you a Dom - or a sadist - or both?
Or, possibly, none of the above!



By the way, that puts me ahead again.  ;)

[John_F_Drake]

Primarily, a Dom.

I take some pleasure in dealing out pain, but thats more of the "You have no choice but to accept whatever I choose to do to you, regardless of how painful it is, because I own you" idea.

Incidentally, I'm mildly masochistic.  When I find someone on my body that hurt (moving my arm into a certain position, bumping a bruise against something, etc) the first thing I always start to do is recreate the pain a bunch of times.

[John_F_Drake]

Actually, upon reflection, that has more to do with my morbidity than masochism.

[Sprayman]

Actually, upon reflection, that has more to do with my morbidity than masochism.

Agreed.

And I also agree that you are much more a Dom than a sadist. At least from what you have said here.
I'm more the other way, I think. I like to inflict pain, mainly with whips.
I own about 15 of them and try to use all of them as often as things like opportunity allow!
I am also a Dom but that is somewhat secondary to giving pain. And I don't have a regular sub to work with. I use the 'pass arounds' at the local clubs. At my age, the sex part is nice but not a driving factor like it was a few years ago!

[subnoxious]

Freaky odd that you've filled this topic. I was wondering about it yesterday and thought to post something.. then figured maybe it was supposed to remain empty by some pre-existing rule of which I was not aware.

[Sprayman]

Freaky odd that you've filled this topic. I was wondering about it yesterday and thought to post something.. then figured maybe it was supposed to remain empty by some pre-existing rule of which I was not aware.

'Freaky odd' might be a proper analysis of John.
But he may want to dispute it!

[John_F_Drake]

But he may want to dispute it!

Why would I want to do something like that?

[Sprayman]

But he may want to dispute it!

Why would I want to do something like that?

I did not say that you 'would' dispute it. Only that you might. You have been somewhat contrary on occasion!

[John_F_Drake]

I am never contrary O.o

[Sprayman]

I am never contrary O.o

And the moon is made of green cheese too!

[John_F_Drake]

Its blue, not green.

and for quixote, THIS discussion is the definition of irony.

[Sprayman]

Its blue, not green.

and for quixote, THIS discussion is the definition of irony.

In this case, it's green. As in moldy green!