i need some help too.....

[vanny]

a little over a year ago, i discovered the rpp website by accident and immediately became completely consumed and started reading like crazy.  soon i was looking for videos to help with the visual aid part of it, but i've never seen a video that really lives up to what i would consider extremely hardcore.  my appetite for this is enormous and nothing seems to be enough.  i'm not into the ridiculous amounts of mutilation or permanant damage, but i have an enormous desire to punish and enslave some random unsuspecting slut.  of course it's all a fantasy of mine, but i don't know anyone else personally who would participate in such things as i desire.  most women i've been with don't even like anal, much less all my other fascinations.

how the hell do i find women who are into this in the real world? it's not so hard online (but this is the first forum site i've participated in), but i guess thats because no one has a face online, ya know?  i hope i'm getting across what i'm trying to say and not losing anyone. i guess what i'm asking is, how the hell do i find a woman who is willingly submissive to me and loves it in the real world?

[Sprayman]

I understand what you are saying, but there are real live women out there that really do like this stuff. We have quite a few here at the forum. Take a look at some of the clips posted by Ale and Emma if you don't believe me. Look into Paintoy.com for some more.

Don't know where you live, but most large cities have at least one BDSM group. In fact some not so large cities do. I know of at least 4 such groups in central Florida within 100 miles of my home.

Look around - they are out there. Try some of the websites that have chat rooms. Be careful, but give it a try.

[Quixote]

I have a friend who picks up girls on a site called collarme.com for him and his girlfriend to co-dom.  Just mentioning.

Personally, my girlfriends always seem to be into it, when I slowly and nervously let that side of me show.  Maybe they sense it in me.  I don't know.  Again, just mentioning.

[Emma]

I agree with Q and Spray.   Definitely look up info on 'munches' in your area.  A munch if you are unfamiliar is a bdsm get together, usually at a resturaunt or pub.  Its tame and a time to just meet folks, get info on local stuff thats going on and just get to know some of the folks in your local kink community.   A google of the largest town in your area should do it.. just google  : your city, or close big city bdsm munch. 

Chat rooms are also quite wonderful.  I met Alebeard quite by accident when i was just sorta checking out BDSM chat rooms and really had no intention of meeting a pervert in real life.. but he charmed me to my core and I met him about 6 weeks later at a semi private bdsm club and that was almost 10 yrs ago.  Perversion and debauchery ensued and life has been a veritable awesome sick dream ever since. 

and another thing.. how can all of these women not want to be sodomized??  What sort of women are you associating with?    I wanted to be sodomized when i was 15 or 16 and the guy I was with refused me..  I was soooo sad! 

Im glad you came and I hope you continue to haunt this place and leave your mark everywhere.  =)

xxoo

[Dr_BuzzCzar]

One more to agree. There's a lot of us out there. The advent of the 'net sure made it easier for us to find one another. Those of us that live for heaping pain and degradation on others, started finding a selection of those that lived for receiving pain and degradation from us. When I discovered chat rooms that discussed my fantasies in 93 or so, I was absolutely floored. It's how I found my wife and we have just passed the 10 year mark.

[Emma]

It's how I found my wife and we have just passed the 10 year mark.

lol, Alebeard and I met 10 yrs ago in a MIRC chat room.

[Quixote]

I should find a bunch of pervert couples who met on the net, interview them and do a book ...

[Emma]

I should find a bunch of pervert couples who met on the net, interview them and do a book ...

I think that is a fantastic idea.  People are fascinated by perversion and oddball things.  Its human nature.   I think it would sell like mad.  A possible title.. 'Caught in a .net'  or  'Entanglements in the Web'

[Dr_BuzzCzar]

I should find a bunch of pervert couples who met on the net, interview them and do a book ...

That really isn't a bad idea. Kind of a modernized "Q Letters", except more than one subject.

[vanny]

thanks for the awesome info everyone! i'm liking this website more and more every time i login :)

[Quixote]

It is an interesting one, isn't it?  But I'm much too lazy.

I wish somebody else would do it so I can read it.  It would be interesting.

[tak17]

a little over a year ago, i discovered the rpp website by accident and immediately became completely consumed and started reading like crazy.  soon i was looking for videos to help with the visual aid part of it, but i've never seen a video that really lives up to what i would consider extremely hardcore.  my appetite for this is enormous and nothing seems to be enough.  i'm not into the ridiculous amounts of mutilation or permanant damage, but i have an enormous desire to punish and enslave some random unsuspecting slut.  of course it's all a fantasy of mine, but i don't know anyone else personally who would participate in such things as i desire.  most women i've been with don't even like anal, much less all my other fascinations.

how the hell do i find women who are into this in the real world? it's not so hard online (but this is the first forum site i've participated in), but i guess thats because no one has a face online, ya know?  i hope i'm getting across what i'm trying to say and not losing anyone. i guess what i'm asking is, how the hell do i find a woman who is willingly submissive to me and loves it in the real world?

I'm in the same but opposite position. I can't find a man to do the things to me I want him to. Sad, sad world. I don't suppose you live in the NW?
 

[mydarkerside]

I'm in the same but opposite position. I can't find a man to do the things to me I want him to. Sad, sad world. I don't suppose you live in the NW?
 

keep looking over your shoulder like that, you'll find someone local...

[Quixote]

What a sad world ...

Like Emma says, one word: 'munches'.

[Sprayman]

a little over a year ago, i discovered the rpp website by accident and immediately became completely consumed and started reading like crazy.  soon i was looking for videos to help with the visual aid part of it, but i've never seen a video that really lives up to what i would consider extremely hardcore.  my appetite for this is enormous and nothing seems to be enough.  i'm not into the ridiculous amounts of mutilation or permanant damage, but i have an enormous desire to punish and enslave some random unsuspecting slut.  of course it's all a fantasy of mine, but i don't know anyone else personally who would participate in such things as i desire.  most women i've been with don't even like anal, much less all my other fascinations.

how the hell do i find women who are into this in the real world? it's not so hard online (but this is the first forum site i've participated in), but i guess thats because no one has a face online, ya know?  i hope i'm getting across what i'm trying to say and not losing anyone. i guess what i'm asking is, how the hell do i find a woman who is willingly submissive to me and loves it in the real world?

I'm in the same but opposite position. I can't find a man to do the things to me I want him to. Sad, sad world. I don't suppose you live in the NW?
 

vanny -= google munch and cities close to your home - there are people like us everywhere.

takici = move to Florida. I promise to be very cruel to you and if I get tired there are several friends here that would be happy to help me help you!