Guys: Too Big

[kimbra_ailis]

Guys, is there such a thing as your cock being too big?

This is kinda inspired by those extenze commercials when the guy always startes off by say that he does not want to be any bigger, he just wants preform better...

I know there is a debate about do women want big dicks or not... But we have not really heard from the guys. 

[mothbrad]

I'm not really sure what to vote - mine's as big as it is, and I don't have any plans on changing it.  As for 'too big', if it made it impossible to buy clothes, that might be a problem, not to mention routinely causing permanent damage to partners (or just making sex impossible).

[Sprayman]

I'm sure that the answer is yes - but I can't then add a size.

Both of Mothbrad's comments make sense, but don't apply to me in any way. I am of statistically average size, so have never had a problem of this sort.

So - I would say that it would be too big if I shoved it down a woman's throat and she actually choked to death from it. Not gagged or cried or made strange noises - I've had all that from some women - at one time or another. If it actually caused her to choke and die - it would be to big - because I would hate to waste a potential cocksucker!

So obviously - it would depend on the woman - since what is too big for one - could certainly be too small for another. Therefore - it isn't my problem - it must be the woman's problem. (Men - it's always the woman's fault!)

[Quixote]

What I typed before I read Spray's post is mostly the same as what he said:

I haven't voted.  I mean, obviously there is such a thing as too big; more than three or four feet and I'd keep tripping over it.  :-P  I think that while there is such a thing as too big, how big that is exactly, depends on the woman, her tightness and depth.

Also, side note, I loves getting me a deepthroat blowjob where it is buried to the balls.  I am not huge, I freely admit, but, looking on the brightside, I would imagine if I were that this would happen to me less often.

[Dr Verloc]

I would say it's too big only if for some reason the size makes it impossible for the owner to do something he wants to do. If it's too big to fit, that's a problem. Otherwise, no.

Dr Verloc

[phtlc]

I doubt there really is any such thing as too big. If I were so big that it inflicted terrible pain on the girls I fucked.............why would I care?

[death2Uall]

Well, I suppose if it were so big that I literally could not force it in, I would have to consider that too big.  But that's more a matter of girth than length . . .

 

[Quixote]

In reality, not fantasy where the application of force would mean it wouldn't matter, I think if I had a really unbelievably huge cock (as a man, it's not easy for me to admit to not being a medical freak of nature in this department - we really are a very strange gender ...) I would have spent less of my life with it completely buried, to the root, in a girl's throat.  It wouldn't be as easy to get myself prolonged deepthroat blowjobs, and they are one of my favourite things.  That's why I think there is such a thing as too big.  But it doesn't make me sure how big too big actually is.

[phtlc]

Anything can be forced in with the proper application of force. She may screech a bit, but it will get in there if you are determined enough.

[Quixote]

Even in fantasy I wouldn't want to dislocate her jaw or paralyze her larynx.  I never fuck with the eyes or the ability to talk (except where security makes it a necessity).  I want her to be able to look into my eyes.  And I need her to be able to beg for mercy.  Can't do that if her throat has been badly damaged. 

[Dr Verloc]

At the end of the day, I think it's more a question of skill with tools than the size of the tools involved.  It is the imagination, creativity, knowledge, desire, and relentless will of the torturer that breaks the patient, not his tools. Or his tool, for that matter.

Dr Verloc

[Quixote]

True.  A truly gifted torturer, even if he only has a two-inch dick, will quickly get the victim to a point where the sight of his ostensibly unimpressive tool causes her to shake violently with terror.  So who cares?  If you want her violated with a truly massive cock, that's why God created donkeys.

[Dr Verloc]

Quixote wrote:

If you want her violated with a truly massive cock, that's why God created donkeys.

Quixote is my favorite person today

Dr Verloc

[Quixote]

:-)  Thankee.

[millymooe]

Yes, as far as we women are concerned, there IS a limit to how big we can reasonably take.  Less so with thickness perhaps, but average depth of a woman vagina is between 5 & 7inches.  After that, the cervix muscle CAN be trained open, preferably gently, allowing a further 2 - 4 inches to enter. 
After that, it's PAIN in capitals as our other organs are shifted around.
 
A hard 5 inch penis, if used with skill and thought of our erogenous areas, will be more than welcome.
 
Yours faithfully,
Milly Mooe
(Mom of 3 and experienced)